How much does it take for someone to get aired out???
Wow, I haven't written a blog since... forever haha. Why am I writing a blog? I don't know, Mr. Ing just suggested that I should right one. I'm currently at Starbucks trying to complete my APWH homework and we all know how that is working out LOL. Anyway, I'm just going to write about what recently happened to Korey and me.
During my years in leadership, a lot had happened... I wasn't really close to anyone but Korey, Mr. Ing, and Period 6 (Korey and I's period) during my eighth-grade year. Why? Because the other people had many personal problems that interfered with leadership, which made them perform poorly and not have a trustworthy relationship with Mr. Ing; orrrrr they just existed and did what they were supposed to do. If you're still in leadership right now, you probably will encounter a point in your second year of leadership where everyone claims, "Yeah! We are going to hang out with each other during high school and still be friends!!" Not to burst your bubble, that's likely not going to happen unless you guys have the same classes or put an effort in maintaining your relationship. My point is that that happened to me in 8th grade, I said something similar to that phrase, and during my freshman year, I drifted with EVERYONE. However, if you did have a strong relationship with someone, you'll be able to talk to them and catch up with them like you guys still hang out with each other (even though you probably drifted apart). That's pretty much the relationship I have with Korey, even though we don't hang out as much anymore, I can still bond with her when I see her again. There are other people in leadership that I still say "hi" to whenever I see them at school. If I'm lucky, I can have a small conversation with them like "Oh, how are you?" types of convos. BUUTTTT there are some people that I don't really say "hi" to... I usually give them a smile. Like for instance, there's this one person who I see at school.. and whenever I encounter that person, I smile, but I don't say "hi" because I don't feel comfortable around that person... I DON'T EVEN FEEL THAT OUR RELATIONSHIP IS STRONG ENOUGH FOR ME TO SAY HI THAT PERSON. Because I only smile at STRANGERS. That person usually airs my smiles out so now I'm just going to walk past that person as if I didn't see them. It's so ironic because I've been in leadership with this person for two years! And I still feel like as if they're a stranger to me.. It's funnier because that person was in classes in elementary school for gods sake.
The whole reason to this blog is let y'all know that if you want to maintain a relationship with someone, then DO IT. I honestly regret not creating strong relationships with people because these awkward encounters are killin' me. Korey had a stronger relationship with this person than I did so her encounter with this person got to her feelings more than it got to mines.. wait, honestly it doesn't really bother me. If a person doesn't like me... then who cares? I told Mr. Ing that no one asked that person to like me. Also, here's a tip, if someone says "hi" to you or makes a kind enough gesture to smile at you, be ethical and don't air them out. So don't be bothered if someone doesn't like you or doesn't care about you, you can't force them to. It's your life and your choice to let it bother you. That's why I like to keep my circle small, I literally don't have that many close friends that I trust.
TBH I HONESTLY DON'T KNOW WHAT I WROTE ABOUT, ALL MY IDEAS ARE SCATTERED AROUND. OKAY GOOD BYE I NEED TO START ON MY AP BECAUSE I'VE BEEN HERE FOR AN HOUR AND I HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING BUT WRTIE THIS BLOG.
During my years in leadership, a lot had happened... I wasn't really close to anyone but Korey, Mr. Ing, and Period 6 (Korey and I's period) during my eighth-grade year. Why? Because the other people had many personal problems that interfered with leadership, which made them perform poorly and not have a trustworthy relationship with Mr. Ing; orrrrr they just existed and did what they were supposed to do. If you're still in leadership right now, you probably will encounter a point in your second year of leadership where everyone claims, "Yeah! We are going to hang out with each other during high school and still be friends!!" Not to burst your bubble, that's likely not going to happen unless you guys have the same classes or put an effort in maintaining your relationship. My point is that that happened to me in 8th grade, I said something similar to that phrase, and during my freshman year, I drifted with EVERYONE. However, if you did have a strong relationship with someone, you'll be able to talk to them and catch up with them like you guys still hang out with each other (even though you probably drifted apart). That's pretty much the relationship I have with Korey, even though we don't hang out as much anymore, I can still bond with her when I see her again. There are other people in leadership that I still say "hi" to whenever I see them at school. If I'm lucky, I can have a small conversation with them like "Oh, how are you?" types of convos. BUUTTTT there are some people that I don't really say "hi" to... I usually give them a smile. Like for instance, there's this one person who I see at school.. and whenever I encounter that person, I smile, but I don't say "hi" because I don't feel comfortable around that person... I DON'T EVEN FEEL THAT OUR RELATIONSHIP IS STRONG ENOUGH FOR ME TO SAY HI THAT PERSON. Because I only smile at STRANGERS. That person usually airs my smiles out so now I'm just going to walk past that person as if I didn't see them. It's so ironic because I've been in leadership with this person for two years! And I still feel like as if they're a stranger to me.. It's funnier because that person was in classes in elementary school for gods sake.
The whole reason to this blog is let y'all know that if you want to maintain a relationship with someone, then DO IT. I honestly regret not creating strong relationships with people because these awkward encounters are killin' me. Korey had a stronger relationship with this person than I did so her encounter with this person got to her feelings more than it got to mines.. wait, honestly it doesn't really bother me. If a person doesn't like me... then who cares? I told Mr. Ing that no one asked that person to like me. Also, here's a tip, if someone says "hi" to you or makes a kind enough gesture to smile at you, be ethical and don't air them out. So don't be bothered if someone doesn't like you or doesn't care about you, you can't force them to. It's your life and your choice to let it bother you. That's why I like to keep my circle small, I literally don't have that many close friends that I trust.
TBH I HONESTLY DON'T KNOW WHAT I WROTE ABOUT, ALL MY IDEAS ARE SCATTERED AROUND. OKAY GOOD BYE I NEED TO START ON MY AP BECAUSE I'VE BEEN HERE FOR AN HOUR AND I HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING BUT WRTIE THIS BLOG.
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